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Every Friday, we feature comics by illustrators we love. Here’s today’s, by the lovely Nina Cosford.
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Reasons for a Bad Mood
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Perhaps slightly beside the point, but if your periods are making you miserable, look into not having them. Single best health decision I ever made. I realize that it won’t work for everyone, or be a healthy choice for everyone, but for lots of women, suppression could vastly improve the quality of your life.
What I experienced: almost immediate end to chronic anemia, better sleep, less chronic pain, incredible lifting of depression and anxiety, weight loss, increased energy, less migraines, zero acne, and magically my husband and family became dramatically less annoying for half the month. I was just over 40, have suppressed for 5 years now, with zero side effects, and the first birth control pill I tried worked perfectly. Results vary! But it’s worth a chat with your Dr if you are experiencing negative symptoms with your period.
PS, suppressing your period is just about as *natural* as having one, month in and month out, for decades…… Neither is the *natural* reproductive state for human females.
How about: expecting period every day since being one year postpartum, but still nowhere in sight! Actually, last week I was losing my mind, partly sleep deprived, but still felt like something was really wrong with me. The next day I got my period and rejoiced!! First one since my daughter was born 15 months ago!
Yes, yes, and yes again!! This is me and I don’t find it offensive at all.
I’m a woman, I get my periods, and I hate going through the nasty mood swings and everything else it involves.
If your mood is not effected by your period – good for you, you are very lucky. I definitely am, and I intended to talk to my daughter about it when the time is right, so she’ll know what to expect and how to deal with it.
me too!!! But this is a recent thing for me. It has been really throwing me off but I started to feel better about it after noticing the pattern.
Our body chemistry certainly does account for our moods! Certainly not the only factor behind a bad mood but I know my hormones definitely contribute to my weepy, angsty, angry, bad mood feelings right before my period. This self-knowledge is useful.
Demeaning someone for their hormones is one thing, but realizing you may be acting out of the ordinary because of your cycle is useful… time to hunker down and practice self care.
After seeing mixed reactions to this post, I went to Nina’s original illustration to see if I could dig anything up. The caption reads,
“Forever finding excuses.”
I completely relate with that. I feel better or slightly assured when that time of the month rolls around after a weird/hard/emotional day. I think, “Ah…it all makes sense now.” I don’t think Nina is trying to spread or encourage a stereotype that women are always in a bad mood. I can see how one may interpret it that way, but we should also keep in mind that the creator has his/her own perspective/inspiration/idea behind a drawing and ultimately, that’s what matters most.
Regardless, happy Friday :)
I have read that during your actual bleeding estrogen levels are at the lowest point of your cycle, your hormone level is most similar to a man’s. Shows how biased our socilization can be to saying anything that is not male is strange. When we assume that blood = strange! scary! Must be hormonal!
I find I behave more irrationally and emotional than usual, so in that sense, yes, it is strange.
Haha! I find this funny! The cartoon woman is just cranky all of the time, regardless of her cycle! Lol. Ps: Myself- I am very sensitive to my hormones and need to have humour about it – it helps me survive the reality. It’s worse (and far more damaging) to pretend it doesn’t exist or happen to some us. I literally have to plan around my period week because of migraines and pain. Saying that we aren’t allowed to acknowledge that reality is denying what many women experience. And honestly, all that pain makes me sensitive and more emotional. It’s tough! And it’s real. I’m Very happy for women who can’t relate, it probably means you don’t suffer from your menstrual cycles the way some of us do. And for me, when my period is over and far away (4th cuadrant) I am as happy, energized and strong as can be! I plan my life accordingly. Humour helps. :)
This!
hah, love this!
thanks for the laugh :)
This illustration plays into the same crap that gets thrown at powerful women like Hillary Clinton or Elizabeth Warren: they are always “angry” and “emotional.” Why support that narrative?
I totally agree, I love 99.9% of cup of jo content, but the whole ‘women are ruled by their bodies and hormones’ thing completely undermines women. Disappointing.
i’m so interested in this response because i saw this as a totally different thing — i interpreted it as a woman who got into bad moods now and again, but it actually has nothing to do with her period because it can happen anytime. like, it shows the ridiculousness/pointlessness of the stereotype.
now i’m curious to ask nina what she meant when she drew it :)
Couldn’t agree more. Saw this and was disappointed.
My bad mood is due to my younger sister. Our mom is less than a week away from surgery and nervous, and she moved in with our parents because she screwed up her life, and she is going around stressing our mom out and insulting her. I’m fiercely loyal to our mom, and she hates her guts. I know sisterly love is a big thing on this site, but my sister could disappear off the planet and I wouldn’t give a hoot.
No where near my period= ovulation which is the week I’m the most moody though!
Yes. Relatable. Hahaha
May I suggest comics by an illustrator named Fran Meneses (Frannerd)?
Please check her out on Instagram, YouTube, and Twitter. Her comics are very relatable and funny! Thank you.
Thank you!
Fran is so amazing; she would be great on Cup of Jo! :)
This is so true for me. Totally sending it to my husband!
As much as I don’t want to encourage stereotyping and all that, after having a baby I discovered just how sensitive I am to hormone changes: physically through loosening ligaments to the point of injury, as well as psychologically/emotionally…
Having a kid has changed my perceptions on gender and I’ve accepted that while many many (many) things need to be changed in society, hormones and genetics play an enormous part in how people inherently are from birth. Including the fact that everyone exists on a variety of spectrums.
<3
I usually like these illustrations but this one rubbed me the wrong way. Aren’t we perpetuating that women are always in a ~bad~ mood?
Oh just in a jokey way — just how we try to explain any bad moods to ourselves.
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